repost: 人生的答卷,無法更改,也無法重來

Written by Frank M. Lin 3/24/2017 4:10 am @ El Cerrito, California – Just spent 2 nights at my uncle’s house in El Cerrito Hills.  The last time I slept in this area was probably pre-2008 actually.  I didn’t realize it while growing up but El Cerrito is a very nice suburban area to San Francisco.  Psychically it is not that far away to the city!!  But traffic on I-80 can be terrible though…  The house I grew up in is quite unique because it is with on the border of El Cerrito and Richmond.  Our address list us in Richmond and the main house is on the Richmond side but we have a detached garage and it is physically in El Cerrito.  🙂  Pretty cool right?  Ha ha ha…

PS, I haven’t translated this short article to English yet.  It is about life lesson derived from practicing Chinese Calligraphy.  If any reader wants me to translate it simply let me know and I will get this one done since it will only take me like 5-10 minutes anyway.  But I’m about to leave to drive to Fremont to play 5 am bball so, see y’all later!!

Source: http://www.read-life.com/2015/12/24/admin-1723/

人生的答卷,無法更改,也無法重來

Posted: 十二月 24, 2015

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人生沒有草稿

小時候,父親讓我向一位老先生學書法,用廢舊報紙練字多年,可自己一直沒有大的進步。

老先生對父親說:「如果你讓娃兒用最好的紙來寫,可能會寫得更好。」

從此以後,父親就按照他說的去做了。果然,我的字大有長進。

問其原因,老先生說,因為你用舊報紙寫字的時候,總感覺是在打草稿,即使寫得不好也無所謂,以後還有機會,所以就不能完全專心。而用最好的紙,你就會感覺機會的珍貴,有一種很正式的心態,從而也就比平常練習時更加專心、用心去寫,所以字也就能夠寫好。

多年以後,驀然回首自己走過的人生路程,確實有草稿上練字的那種心態,以至於使許多願望沒能實現。

其實就是因為曾經以為自己還是來日方長,所以才一次次地失去難得的機遇,白白地浪費了一張又一張的人生好紙。

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老是在以一種「打草稿」的心態做事,只是把生活裏的許多事情當成演習,而不是真刀真槍的實戰,所以就沒有完全發揮出自己的潛能和專長,更沒有全力以赴地去做事,結果就可想而知了。

許多時候,我們老是在犯這樣的錯誤,總把希望寄託在明天,不珍惜生命;對人生就像寫字一樣,往往不注重字寫得怎樣,而只是看花費了多少紙。

生命不應該打草稿,而現實的生活,其實也不會給我們打草稿的機會,因為我們所認為的草稿,其實就已經是我們人生的答卷,無法更改,也無法重來,所以我們要珍惜每一次機會,認真對待每一天。

別讓生命再打草稿,用行動奉獻一份愛意給你周圍的人,你的生命價值便得到了延伸!
用你的目光呵護道旁的每一株無名小花,你的生命就是原野上的一株大樹!

用你的心靈去感應樹上的每一片綠葉,你的生命從此便獲得了安寧與清靜。

 

作者:佚名

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